Let’s be honest: the holidays can feel like a beautiful whirlwind and a full-body stress test. Even without family dynamics in the mix, it’s a season of disrupted routines, endless to-dos, and being pulled in every direction.

Here are simple, doable ways to support your body, protect your energy, and stay connected to yourself without adding anything overwhelming to your plate.

1. Expect the challenge and plan with compassion.

This season will be busy. Naming that ahead of time keeps you from feeling blindsided or slipping into the hope that this year will magically feel different. Awareness gives you steadiness.

2. Begin each morning with gratitude.

List three things you’re grateful for from the last 24 hours or three things you’re looking forward to today. This quick mental shift anchors your mood before the day starts pulling at you.

3. Aim for one grounding, nourishing meal.

Keep it simple: protein and color (fiber and nutrients live here. No perfection required. Just one solid meal that helps support blood sugar, energy, and focus.

4. Keep stabilizing snacks within reach.

Errands and nonstop running require fuel. Think cheese sticks, nuts, seeds, dried fruit, Greek yogurt, or a protein bar. Anything you can toss in your bag that keeps your blood sugar steady.

5. Make movement tiny and achievable.

This is not the season for rigid workout schedules. Try a 10 to 15 minute walk or short movement snacks. Do 2 to 3 minutes of squats, kettlebell swings, planks, or mountain climbers. Try a quick burst after wrapping a gift, lighting the tree, sliding a pie into the oven, or unloading groceries.

6. Avoid saving up calories.

Skipping meals leads to blood sugar crashes, stronger cravings, and overeating. That is biochemistry, not willpower. Eat normally, use steady snacks, and let yourself enjoy holiday meals without feeling pulled to overdo it.

7. Check in with your body regularly.

Ask yourself: am I hungry, thirsty, overstimulated, or exhausted? Your body gives you information. Responding to it is an act of self-respect.

8. Step away when things feel overwhelming.

It is always okay to take a breather. Step outside, breathe slowly, or give yourself a short reset before returning to the moment.

9. Build micro moments of peace and joy.

Play your favorite music while cooking. Add a cozy scent to your space. Take three deep breaths before getting out of the car. Choose small rituals that make the season feel softer and more nourishing.

10. A midlife reminder.

Your hormones, stress response, sleep, and metabolism all experience the holidays differently in midlife. Listening to your body instead of powering through is the strategy that will support you now and in the long run.

Here’s to a holiday season where you listen to your body, honor your needs, and choose what brings you peace. You deserve that kind of care.

Dr. Tes Jordens, Physician 1988 Wellness

I’m Dr. Jordens, a board-certified osteopathic physician in Family Medicine and Obesity Medicine, and certified by The Menopause Society.

I founded 1988 to offer something different: personalized, evidence-based care for women in midlife. Care that validates your lived experience, supports your body, and honors your whole self—because women deserve care that meets them where they are.

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